Manifesting
Change Your Words, Change Your Marriage
You ever find yourself complaining, venting, or mentally rewriting your partner's entire personality? Yeah, me too.
I used to think manifesting was all about crystals, candles, and vision boards. Turns out, it’s also about what we say—especially about the people we love.
Your words are spells. And in marriage? Those spells either create miracles or messes.
Words create space
The Energy of Your Words Matters
Every complaint, eye-roll, or sarcastic jab sends energy somewhere. And often, it creates the very thing we don’t want.
When I started changing my language—from “He never helps” to “He’s learning to show up for me”—I saw actual shifts.
Not because I cast a spell on James. But because I cast one on me. I changed my perspective, softened my heart, and created space for him to meet me differently.
Manifesting in Marriage Isn’t Manipulation
This isn’t about faking it. It’s about faithing it.
It’s about aligning your words with what you want, not what you’re afraid of.
And if you need help shifting out of criticism and into creation, I made you something fun and magical: my free fillable workbook called “Spells to Make Your Husband the Perfect Man for You.”
t’s cheeky, it’s soulful, and yes—it actually works.
Spells to Make Your Husband the Perfect Man for You:
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This fillable PDF harnesses the power of words to help you effectively communicate your needs and desires, laying the groundwork for positive change in your relationship. By practicing mindful language, you can strengthen your emotional connection and cultivate a more loving, harmonious bond.
Speak Life:
A Before & After Language Shift
The way you phrase something can either build a wall—or open a door. Let’s look at how tiny word shifts can create massive energy shifts:
Instead of: “You never help me clean after dinner.”
Try: “I appreciate how you help and make dinner such a fun time for our family.”
Instead of: “You always ignore me when I talk.”
Try: “I feel most connected when you look at me while I share.”
Instead of: “You don’t care about my needs.”
Try: “I feel really loved when you check in about how I’m doing.”
Instead of: “You’re always on your phone.”
Try: “I miss your attention. Can we have some phone-free time together?”
Your words are a blueprint. And when you shift your language, you shift the atmosphere.
Try This
(Text your partner right now-)
Ready to shift the energy in your relationship? Here are some loving, life-giving text messages you can send your partner right now to get the magic started:
1. “Hey love, I’m thinking about you and marveling at how hard you work to provide for our family. I really love that about you.”
2. “Just wanted you to know—I feel so safe when you hold me. You don’t even have to say a word. It’s everything.”
3. “I’ve been reflecting today, and I really admire how you’ve been showing up lately. Thank you.”
4. “You’re so good at making me laugh. Just thinking about your goofy grin makes me smile.”
5. “Thank you for being mine. I don’t say it enough. But I see you, and I love you.”
Test one. Watch what opens up.
Real-Life Moment:
When I Changed My Words About James
There was a time I kept saying, “He’s just not emotionally available.”
Guess what? He wasn’t.
But when I shifted to, “He’s opening up more and more,” I noticed when he did lean in. I celebrated it. I reinforced it. And it grew.
Not because I controlled him—but because I stopped declaring my fear and started declaring my faith.
Speak to their greatness
Need Help Creating the Marriage You Desire?
I’ve got you.
Book a 1-on-1 coaching session with me and we’ll walk through your limiting beliefs and patterns together. Or join us at a healing couples retreat and rewrite your relationship script in real time.
FAQ
Isn’t this just pretending?
Nope. It’s partnering with possibility. It’s choosing to believe in your partner’s growth.
What if I’m just really frustrated with them?
Let the workbook guide you back to truth. You’re allowed to feel, but you’re also allowed to create new outcomes.
What if my partner never changes?
This work isn’t about forcing change. It’s about transforming you—which creates room for miracles.
Do I need to believe in magic for this to work?
Just believe in love. And your words will do the rest.
Can I manifest something big, like more intimacy or spiritual unity?
Absolutely. Start with words. Your language is your launchpad.
What if I don’t know what I want anymore?
Start with curiosity. Let the workbook and God co-create with you. Clarity comes when you begin.
Your words are creative.
They can cut—or they can call something holy into being.
So if you’re tired of replaying the same frustrations, it’s time to write a new spell.
Speak life. Speak love. Speak faith.
And watch what rises.
With wonder and wild hope,
